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Monday, February 15, 2010

Try Learning From Other's Mistakes For A Change.

*WARNING*
The following post is full of painful truths.
The author will not hold back.
*WARNING*

But before I proceed to my HATE POST Im sure you noticed my new blog layout and blog title. Its now called the Silly Ink Blot because in this blog I am going to post a lot of random things like an ink blot but like all psychologists would say there is a meaning to everything, even a Silly Ink Blot.

I am also a big fan of the Chaos Theory... more on that soon. not here.. this post is intended to HATE.

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I am tired of Human stupidity...

I am tired of explaining...

I am tired of mistakes...

I am tired of life...

I am tired...


Human Stupidity is the root of all problems... People just tend to ignore it. Human's have a high tendency to be stupid! There are a lot of types of stupidity and I'm sure all of us have committed at least one type of it.

People never seem to understand the obvious...not because they don't understand but because they refuse to understand. Everyone knows that jumping off a bridge is dangerous and deadly but they keep committing the same mistakes over and over and over again... they never get tired of being stupid. examples?

People love the same person over and over again in desperate need of belief that they will change.
Yeah...sure... Everyone deserves a second chance... but not everyone deserves a thousand chances. Love is not like computer games that you can save your progress that you can reload again if everything starts to get messed up. Open your eyes fool. You have one shot at life and you decide to waste it. Uneducated people are not stupid or dumb, it's the smart ones who refuse to understand who are dumb and stupid.
BOBO ka ba? O sadyang TANGA ka lang talaga? 

People live their life like it's the only life there is in this world.
You don't own the world. You are nothing but a speck of dust waiting to be blown away forever. Reckless behavior is not just damaging to yourself but damaging to everyone around you. When you drink make sure you can take the booze in because if you cant you deserve to be left in a rail track dead. I am tired of people acting bigger than they really are. It's not narcissism, arrogance or pride. It's plain stupidity. Do you honestly think people enjoy hearing your stupid rants and mistakes over and over again? the first time maybe yes. you deserve compassion. the second time? you deserve pity. the third? you deserve nothing. 

People who allow themselves to be made stupid by other people.
"Ginagawa ka ng TANGA, OO ka lang din ng OO."
I can't understand why you refuse to believe the obvious or why you force yourself to believe that something is justifiably correct and acceptable when everyone knows it's not. You rant about how you are being neglected and abused yet you allow yourself to be abused and you are infact negleclecting yourself. You force  yourself to believe your own lies and make some more.

People who live their life on standards that other dumb people set-up.
"Isang shot lang, pakisama lang gud."
"nag kiss na tayo so ibig sabihin love na yun talaga."
"nag smile siya sayo mahal ka nun!"
"Mas madami ka naging uyab mas sikat ka nyan!"
"Yosi tayo para astig."
"Pag hindi siya nag sorry sayo within the time limit di ka na nya mahal."
"Baduy ang suot mo pag di bago or orig."
"Since tayo na dapat buhay mo naka sentro na lang sa akin."
"Hayaan mo lang yan, mawawala lang din yan ng parang bula."

All of the above are just example of stupid standards created and people are forced to believe. Why do people have to succumb to the pressure of society and their friends? if you can call them friends that is. There is no such thing as real, true, aquaintance or even more than friends. Friends are friends. They should let you live your life on the right direction. Never call other people friends when they brought you nothing but trouble. If people want to waste their life there is no reason for you to waste it for them as well.


It is just sickening to witness the world and the people around me waste their lives on such obvious mistakes...

I am one of those people who learned all this the hard way, but I didn't neglect my duty of educating people around me about it's danger. I placed everything in front of you but you still refuse to listen. People thought I was merely joking bu I mean the truth. 

I have done my job and this time...I will stop caring... I will stop noticing... I will stop protecting... I will stop...

but I will say this one last time...

"You can't commit all the mistakes in this world to learn all the lessons, you will not live long enough. Try learning from other's mistakes for a change."
(monteron;09)

9 reinked:

N. said...

i could totally feel you over there. sometimes you would just like to explode, walk right up to that person, and slap him real hard in the face, "WHAT'S UP WITH YOU?!"

microsoftSp said...

"People who live their life on standards that other dumb people set-up."

~bakit nga ba ganun? tssk.

Anonymous said...

You know what you just have to trust yourself and you are confident, so that people will not fool you.. :)

I love this post..

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BoyKidlat said...

@nina

Yeah, they tend to ignore what is outright obvious. the first time its ok..but they keep repeating it again...and again...tsk.

@microsoftsp

it's because they allow themselves to be influenced... bandwagon syndrome. ano ang uso yun ang tama.

@jennifer

tnx for liking it. ^^

microsoftSp said...

im so interested in psychology. mention more of it on your posts.. please? :)

anyway, di ba nga, "It is the true nature of mankind to learn from mistakes, not from example."
– Fred Hoyle

un nga lang, unlearned lessons leads to repeated mistakes. tssk.

BoyKidlat said...

@microsoftSp

what people tend to misunderstand from the statement...

"You need to unlearn, to learn"

is that they think we should all start from scratch and forget everything...

what it really means is that, for you to learn the most vital things...you have to unlearn the other things clouding your mind.

imagine a messy room and your looking for a missing marble... impossible...

remove the clutter...and...tenen! marble found.

societal norms is creating a lot of clutter in our minds telling us what to do, and what we should be...in the process...we lose track of who we really are...

tnx for liking it. ^^ I used to write a lot about psychology on my other blog.

I was a supposed 4th year AB Psychology student btw, but now an AB English Major. ^^

JEANU said...

okay, i just love this post, natamaan ako haha.

especially dun sa part na nagpapa abuse, well it's my current situation. paano ba naman kasi, simpleng bagay inuutusan pa ako nung friend ko,ako naman sunod lang. di ko naman masabe. what should I do? hmm.

microsoftSp said...

i got your point sir. :) as i read your reply, biglang pumasok sa isip ko ung capitalism. isa din kasi un sa mga dahilan ng "clutters" sa buhay natin..

hhm. nagshift ka po?

BoyKidlat said...

@jeanu

Learn to say no. :)
magugulat lang sila at first...but soon when they realized na you can say no na they will realize they can no longer abuse you and stop. ^^

@microsoftsp

yep... last year lang. ^^ incoming 4th year Pychology student na ako...then I shifted to AB english. ^^